Does All The Good U Do Matter @ All??

I titled this post the way that I did because that is how I felt last night and am still feeling this way right now. I wonder sometimes if God recognizes all the good that certain people if they cannot do other things that are "right." What I am saying is that I am a member of the LDS Church and I want to get Endowed, but I cannot right now because I feel like I am not prepared and I have certain circumstances that are prohibiting me from getting endowed at this moment in time and I feel like at least I am going to Church, partaking of the Sacrament, & doing Missionary Work and service when I can. Does that matter in the least? I mean, I hate it when Elders tell me and other people too I assume that "you will not go to the Celestial Kingdom if u are not endowed or sealed", etc...no one should feel pressured into getting married or to go on a mission in order to go to the Celestial Kingdom. I feel like certain people in the Church are too forceful and I just don't approve of the pressure! I mean I realize that there are other ordinances besides baptism in order to receive exhalation, but it is not a sin if you do not get married, get sealed, have kids, etc. I cannot believe that you will go to a far off bad place if those things does not happen! I had to get this off my chest so I just blogged what I felt.