Birthday Cruise Confirmed & Life Throws Unforseen Instances---

My friend, Todd confirmed that we would be definitely be going on this cruise, now he has changed the destination 2 Mexico instead of Jamaica. There is a lot of turmoil going on in the Caribbean and I just want to have fun but at the same time, have a blast and be very safe and cautious! As far as unforeseen circumstances, I am talking about certain friends in my life. It just seems as no matter how good I am or that I try to be...people just have a problem with how I live my life and act...Half of the people I know whom I keep in touch with tell me that I do not call as much and that I am a true friend to be keeping in touch, while the others say that I bug them too much. It just makes me feel bad and I have no clue as to what do....but I cannot satisfy all of them. What do I do? I pray, try to live correctly, what is going on with them?